Self-help : How To Start This Year Positive

Aloha! I hope your 2019 is off to a great start. For today’s video, I am sharing some life lessons vis-a-vis tips to make this year a better one, if not the best. I hope it helps you in one way or the other.

Let me know too in the comments section if you enjoy self-help videos. I do because I get to sit down and talk about life in general, no holds-barred! Usually I transcribe my video but this time around, I want you to see me, hear me, feel me. Raw. Real. Just me.



  1. January 10, 2019 / 11:00 am

    There are so many aspects of life that impact how we feel about the way things are going, some that are beyond our direct control. Nevertheless, I hope this year we see a big change that I am hoping for that will definitely make me feel more optimistic about 2019 😉

    • thefabzilla
      January 10, 2019 / 11:10 am

      I agree, hence our choice for fight or flight. I wish you the best in 2019. And for this ailing country!

  2. January 10, 2019 / 7:15 pm

    I’m not a big fan of self-help videos to be honest. I don’t like to be told what to do.

    • thefabzilla
      January 10, 2019 / 7:30 pm

      Valid point

      • January 11, 2019 / 10:13 am

        I don’t think self-help videos and books are “telling you what to do.” They are just offering a different perspective on life.

        • thefabzilla
          January 11, 2019 / 10:18 am

          I completely agree with you. And if we keep an open mind, oftentimes what we think what we know isn’t exactly that.

  3. January 10, 2019 / 8:46 pm

    I’m really trying my best to set AND WRITE DOWN my goals for this year to hold myself accountable and start the year off right!

    • thefabzilla
      January 10, 2019 / 9:13 pm

      Yes to accountability. I agree with writing down goals and revisiting them every quarter to keep you in check. Happy new year

  4. Jess Scull
    January 11, 2019 / 10:20 am

    I can’t wait to watch this video! I love self-help books & videos!

  5. January 11, 2019 / 11:15 am

    I like self help videos, but just don’t really have time to watch them. I like to take bits of good info from different sources.

  6. January 11, 2019 / 1:41 pm

    I think that it is great to write down goals so that one can actually “see” what they want to achieve– which can help motivate the behavior that will produce the desired result.

    • thefabzilla
      January 11, 2019 / 1:59 pm

      Yes. It makes one accountable for their own actions

  7. January 12, 2019 / 9:58 am

    This is such a helpful video! I love it when bloggers talk about mental health and self help and body positivity.

    • thefabzilla
      January 12, 2019 / 10:30 am

      Thank you! I feel the same

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